Vis Major

My comp crashed. So no more posts for a while.


But I'd like to leave you with this link I came across: http://bd71.blogspot.com/2008/06/family-secrets-state-secrets.html

Questions To Answer Part III of V

1. Would you rather be a worried genius or a joyful simpleton?

A: Joyful simpleton. I should know, coz I've been the worried genius all my life, and it ain't so great...

2. Why are you, you?

A: I guess I am me, because of the mountains of assiduously suppressed potential. Not a bit manages to leak out. Not if I can help it.

3. Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

A: Yes. But I could have had a few less dependency issues.

4. Which is worse, when a good friend moves away, or losing touch with a good friend who lives right near you?

A: Out of sight, out of mind. Neither matter that much.

5. What are you most grateful for?

A: Knowing how to read.

6. Would you rather lose all of your old memories, or never be able to make new ones?

A: Loose all the old ones. I wouldn't mind that even w/o the alternative. It will get me over my inhibitions and psychosis.

7. Is is possible to know the truth without challenging it first?

A: nope. Challenging is part of accepting, and making your own.

8. Has your greatest fear ever come true?

A: Yeah. I've been rejected loads of times. I've lost my purse. I can probably do anything after this.

9. Do you remember that time 5 years ago when you were extremely upset?  Does it really matter now?

A: yeah. Precisely, very clearly. History almost repeats itself, but I think I've made all the preventive action that foreknowledge gives me. So, no, it does not matter today, but certainly mattered back then.

10. What is your happiest childhood memory?  What makes it so special?

A: Going behind my dad's back, and managing to get Leo from the vet! Special, because 1. dogs 2. independence and initiative.

Questions To Answer Part II of V

1. You’re having lunch with three people you respect and admire.  They all start criticizing a close friend of yours, not knowing she is your friend.  The criticism is distasteful and unjustified.  What do you do?

A: Defend my friend. Been there, done that. I have no good sense AT ALL.

2. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be?

A: Don't think too much, if you don't have to. And certainly never think so much that it maqkes you a fundamentalist.

3. Would you break the law to save a loved one?

A: "Save" from mortal danger, duh. From the law, itself, I hope so…. Depends on the risk to me.

4. Have you ever seen insanity where you later saw creativity?

A: So far, no. Is that a good thing??? Seen it the other way though.

5. What’s something you know you do differently than most people?

A: Think!

6. How come the things that make you happy don’t make everyone happy?

A: Because I'm slightly conked in the head? Because I am also high up on the autism spectrum, claustrophobic in all but book shops, coz I'm the proverbial Tam-Bram…. The reasons are endless.

7. What one thing have you not done that you really want to do?  What’s holding you back?

A: See above...

8. Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

A: Underestimating people.

9. If you had to move to a state or country besides the one you currently live in, where would you move and why?

A: Dubai!!!! Coz it's a desert … I might settle for Rajasthan, too, though I've never been there.

10. Do you push the elevator button more than once?  Do you really believe it makes the elevator faster?

A: Yes I do push it more than once. The elevator doesn't come by faster, but I have something to do while I wait!

Questions To Answer

So, I came across this set of 50 questions to find the answers to. They are (supposedly) value-neutral, so allow you to determine for yourself what you are, without any bias from the questions themselves. Some are not quite so effective, while some - particularly the ones asking about memories - are pretty good. I'll post them in groups of 10, so you guys can read my answers...

Because sometimes asking the right questions is the answer.

1. How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?

A: 32? I think I sometimes think of myself as having a mid-life which keeps crisis-ing...

2. Which is worse, failing or never trying?

A: I prefer to never try, or try half-heartedly. But I want to change that answer.

3. Do you do things you don’t like, and like things you don’t do? List.

A:  Yes.

I don't like, but do, the  following -

• staring at my comp all day
• going out immediately after college, to avoid work.
•  procrastinate
• Stare at my feet when in an argument
• But junk food

I like, but don't do, the following -

•  reading the newspaper.
• Writing
• Being spontaneous.
• Getting High….not true, I did that yesterday!!!

4. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?

A: As of today, YES. Unfortunately.

5. What is the one thing you’d most like to change about the world?

A: That people can hide and colour their true feelings in personal relationships.

6. If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich?

A: no idea. Philosophy???

7. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing?

A: Doing what I believe in. I gambled away practicality and opportunity loooong back, though I wish I hadn't.

8. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?

A; Probably would never have had the brains to do anything different. So, no.

9. To what degree have you actually controlled the course your life has taken?

A: I would LOVE to say very little. But actually, about 50 - 50. or even 60 - 40, it’s been all my mess. I wish I had been better informed, before making my decisions though. In terms of lost opportunity cost.

10. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

A: Doing things right. Things must be perfect, with a certain inner synchronity, for me. That would be at the cost of everything else….even if, even I, don’t want things to be perfect.